OK, people, look. I refuse to accept that I am a bad person and have contributed to the power of The Man™ because I bought
enotsola a frigging Valentine's Day card. I like sending him gifts and cards. I do so at the slightest excuse (i.e.: commercialized holidays) and often without "excuses" either (i.e.: random other times of the year, whenever I feel like it). I don't think he gets a lot of fun stuff in the mail. I am not artistic enough to draw my own pictures and my poetry fountain seems to have gotten turned off several years ago, so when I come across a card that makes me giggle and say "he would like this", I don't think there's anything wrong in buying it and sending it. I don't feel that I have to or else. So I am not going to feel guilt and shame at having done so at one of the commerically approved times of the year.