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Yesterday after writing, I slept for way too long, but, it felt really good. Avalanche stayed with me, and Josh even came and snuggled with us for a little bit.

Avi let me trim all ten of her front claws in one sitting. Unheard of.

When I got up, I still wasn't feeling great, but kept going with chores - laundry (cold loads I've been putting off since it takes sooooo long to dry and sometimes needs double washes), cooking - made Josh a gazillion burritos for the week. Cleaned the kitchen, and once Josh left for climbing with his friends at the gym, I took everything up off the floor and vacuumed the whole house. It feels almost like moving, how much stuff I have to shuffle around, but I felt soooooo much better when I was done. Swept, did the bathrooms, cleaned the litter pans and a bunch of other pet care, tidied my room/office a bit even (although this mostly involved dumping everything into my closet but I'll keep going, it has to go in stages like this), took out the trash, etc. etc. I finally stopped and cracked open a non-alcoholic beer and listened to some of a book until Josh got home.

It was funny, at the end of each chore part of my brain was like, that's enough, and I had to confront it and ask, why not keep going? Let's do one more thing. It was really nice to finally get housework done, to actually use the time off I set aside for this, for once. I got pretty much everything on my list done or at least started, and then some.

It felt slow and forced but not so molassesy as before. I still don't feel like myself but I will keep pushing, keep holding out hope for brightness and happiness and a lifted mood and spirit.

Sooooooo many nightmares. My mom has been showing up every night. I keep avoiding my grief meditations, I am afraid of them, I will try to do one in earnest, today. It is nice out for a moment, I have henna in my hair, I will do that bike ride I did yesterday x2 and hopefully stop at the park at the top and actually meditate this time.

...

Today and tomorrow are for getting the studio cleaned out so they can paint, dreading the work but gotta get done. I'd like to have everything out by tomorrow. We'll see how far I can get. I think I should pack myself a dinner so I can stay late if energy allows. I should bring my laptop and also use the time to work on taxes at a cafe if I need a break, today and tomorrow. I have Thurs/Fri set aside for taxes proper, it'd be nice to get the studio cleaned out by then.

...

Super nervous about finding a new cat-sitter for Avalanche. I've asked the neighbor girls to look after her for one night next week, but I don't feel comfortable leaving her care to kids for four days. I need to establish care at a local vet, too. If I do that maybe they might have resources. I should ask fb also, it just sucks that we're so far away from everyone out here, now. I do have one acquaintance in the area who might be game.

I bought a collar for her but now I can't find it, gr. I want to get her used to it so that I can try to get an air tag on her. If she ever escapes she has no ID at the moment, aside from her microchip - that worries me.

Maybe I can grab another collar on the way home today, I need to pick up more food for her.

...

Also need to start getting quotes for central air conditioning installation. 3 quotes at a minimum.

And I never got the gutters cleaned, still need to do that.

...

Avi just did the toe bean stretch at me, lol. Sooooooo cute.

...

Still struggling a little feeling a lot better today, hopefully it holds. I had one of the burritos I made last night after doing all the housework, it was so tasty, it felt really indulgent and nice. Flour tortilla, refried beans, purple cabbage, carrot, salsa, cheese. Nom. I don't usually eat that many carbs in a sitting. It was warm and comforting. Burritos are like a hug in the form of food.

Was also finally able to take all of my vitamins last night, and do my PT, hopeful I can use this as a bit of a reset and get back on track with those things.

...

It's cold and wet but there's a break in the rain, we've been getting rainbows, it's been nice. The sky was bright for a bit but it's darkening again. I should still be okay for my bike ride before the rain restarts later this afternoon. I can ride with hair dye on, good use of time, I'll rinse it out and shower when I get back, it'll feel nice. I don't need a helmet on this ride, it's quiet residential streets, we're really lucky to have the hill to ride on for exercise, and the little park at the top is helpful. Very grateful. We're getting used to the area and finding things about it that we like. There is no limit to how many chickens one can have in Tigard, so we say hi to a big flock on our way on this ride, there is a house with a goose and goats, also. :)
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Shining Hearth schedule posted; Staff and general registration still open

The words Shining Hearth in a calligraphic font. Between the two words there is a hearthfire with rainbow-colored flames and a seven-pointed star.

The schedule for this year's Shining Hearth has been posted to the website! We have presentations on fairy glamour, memories, music in relation to magical systems, otherkin plurality, faery art, dream interpretation, color magic, fairy genealogy, two journeys to places of refuge and healing, and a recipe swap.

Staff moderator signups are still open through March 2nd. We're particularly seeking at least one staff member who would be available in the afternoon and early evening in the Australasia region. Sign up here.

General registration continues to be open through March 26th. Register to attend here.

We are still also seeking someone who would be willing to host a game session of Cards Against Humanity (we can set you up to do this), Jackbox, Gartic Phone (available within Discord), or something similar that is multiplayer and free to play, on Sunday March 29th from 14:00 to 16:00 CET. If you're interested in doing that, reply to this post or email staff (at) shininghearth (dot) net.
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Greater Northshore Bike Connector Map 2.0.8 – 14 February 2026 – is now available on github, as is MEGAMAP 2.0.8.

This release is all about warnings updates. There’s no new infrastructure here but there are some closure/construction updates, the most important being temporary closure of Burke-Gilman in Kenmore, with a detour onto a car street between 61st Ave NE and 65th Ave NE. Pedestrians have to go up to Bothell Way.

Here’s the complete changes list:

  • WARNING: Burke-Gilman CLOSURE in Kenmore for emergency repairs. They aren’t saying what, but it’s almost certainly hillside stabilisation where they piled up highway legos a few months ago. Between 61st and 65th Aves NE, February 16-20. (Both maps)
  • WARNING: I should’ve added this already, but I’ve now added caution flags on 125th NE in Seattle showing the rework in progress through November 2026. This is a massive project and will be a massive upgrade. (Both maps)
  • WARNING: Kirkland’s sewer line repair work still hasn’t let the southern Central Kirkland Connector reopen, and the latest word is end of February. Notice updated to reflect that. (MEGAMAP only)
  • REMOVED WARNING: EastRail Trail South temporary closure in Renton is over, so the warning has been removed. (MEGAMAP only)
  • REMOVED WARNING: Final work on the extended bike lanes of NE 124th in Kirkland wrapped up, so that warning has been removed. (Both maps)

All permalinks continue to work.

If you enjoy these maps and feel like throwing some change at the tip jar, here’s my patreon. Patreon supports get bonus map variants, like pre-sliced printables of the Greater Northshore, and this month I’m throwing them an all-cautions-removed 0% compression version of the MEGAMAP to see whether people like that. Plus, I can be open to requests.

Regardless – enjoy biking!

Posted via Solarbird{y|z|yz}, Collected.

just another lil snippet

Feb. 13th, 2026 11:01 am[personal profile] serafaery
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supposed to dance at a friend's event tonight, I do not like the arrangement but agreed to it before she changed everything, erf. I might skip out I dunno, or I might just go and ignore her demands since it's not a paid gig anyway, I wish I weren't so stressed about it.

This is just to remind myself that I like dancing, sigh.

This is super low energy since I didn't know this song and was sort of taking a break away from everyone, I often dance a lot more energetically and share energy with other dancers around me (mostly solo, unless very close friends with someone who wants to dance together).

Finished my office work, did some research for taxes (blergh), need to head out to werk, might use the extra time to clean the studio a bit. Throw some stuff away. That would be a nice use of time I think.

Wish I felt better.



...

Friday the 13th is usually a lucky day for me, they are always delightful, some exceptionally so. I feel a kinship with Freja so maybe she is smiling on me I dunno.

generalized anxiety

Feb. 12th, 2026 08:36 am[personal profile] serafaery
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Woke up in floods of anxiety. More nightmares about my mom. omg so awful. (She was not well in this last dream. And I was upending my now-stable life to help her.)

In this dream, she was deteriorating more like the way my grandmother did. And I had sort of pushed that death out of my mind and it was unspeakably painful for me to witness in my early 20s and omg my heart is screaming over it, today.

(My grandfather's death was even worse. He died when I was 12.)

Scared about the future, Josh and I aging, and scared about the house, which has not felt scary since xmas. Money feels impossible to collect after starting on taxes yesterday. How will we ever keep paying to live here?

I found a rotten spot on the outside of the kitchen window frame, I think maybe that's where the water disappeared to that I panicked about a couple months ago when I was washing the window on the inside and rinsed it with the kitchen sink sprayer and all the water just... vanished.

If all I wrecked was a small section of the window frame, I am fine with that. Fixable.

But now with all the rain recently, the backyard is soup and the floor under the kitchen feels... less flat. Which worries me.

But honestly I'm sure it's the same amount not-exactly-flat it's always been and I am just worried because I am flooded with anxiety chemicals.

Also. We never really got winter. We've had maybe 3 nights when we hit freezing, and there was frost in the morning. My snowman is still on the porch, I am wearing snowman socks, I am trying so hard to maintain hope, but we never get snow after valentine's day. Except that one time in April recently. :( We do get ice in March though, holding out hope for that. I will tolerate ice and loss of power to refill our empty snow-pack on the mountain.

I know everyone else in the country got excessive winter. But it's also terrifying to just skip over it entirely.

I am late for showering and getting ready for a long day of sparkling. I love my job, I am looking forward to work. Since the intense migraine on Monday I've been mostly resting, which has made me feel guilty and despondent. It will feel good to get some movement in.

Teeth cleaning went well despite my neglectfulness lately.

I have not been able to shower or brush my teeth consistently, again.

I hope it gets better. I will keep trying. I was doing okay for a minute, but things have fallen apart again.

I think I need to take a break from The Schopenhauer Cure book. It is too depressing. I will switch to Strange Animals, I have been waiting for this book with baited breath for more than six months. The author is so delightful (Jarod K Anderson). He is everything I need when it comes to writing. It's just, so relaxing.

But also I still cry sometimes. In good ways. The this-is-too-much-love kind of tears.

In my self-care birb app (Finch), I legit got teary-eyed this morning when my birb hugged the Red Queen - who was threatening to steal Sarooroo's heart because she thinks she doesn't have a heart of her own. omg too much cuteness overload. (We are doing a Wonderland themed event this month. So cute.)

Avalanche helps. She's always happy no matter what. She softly mewed at me this morning to alert me to the spectacular sunrise. It lasted forever. It was so vivid. I can't really get photos of them here because of all the trees, but I can still enjoy them through the gaps in the branches.

One thing I do love about winter months. Getting up with the sun.

floating

Feb. 10th, 2026 06:49 pm[personal profile] serafaery
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Wanted to mention that although we did not watch football, I did make us my old favorite 7 layer dip for game day while we laid around and watched rock climbing instead.

I was rooting against the Pats, even though we watched none of it (not even Bad Bunny), only because the last year I lived in Boston in 2004 the Patriots won and people tore up the city so hard flipping cars and setting fires that one person got killed. Nowadays, Boston closes streets and parking 3 days before game day and won't allow people into bars after halftime, to avoid the rioting they used to engage in. Sore winners! I was not impressed. Lots of good things about that city, but I hated that part. I'm glad the Seagulls won. (Sorry but what is a "Seahawk"? A fictional animal?)

I am still living on mostly saltines, and a little fruit. I took it very easy today. I shipped an order. Sewed Josh's sweater. Treated Avi for fleas (winter has been too mild - I saw a mosquito at the park last week.) Sat and soaked up some sun. Watched a beautiful sunset. Not much else. That is okay.

I'm feeling super weird today. My favorite author messaged me on instagram, the day his first novel dropped? AND I messaged Finley, AND I've been texting with my therapist, about the Schopenhauer psychotherapy book I'm reading, which just feels... salacious. (I told my husband. Which makes it all feel even weirder lol.)

I'm in love with all the wide universe and every tiny blade of grass, rn.

baby pics!

Feb. 10th, 2026 03:00 pm[personal profile] pictishmouse
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well, grown babies XD these are my cats! the tabby is Siobhan (pronounced "shiv-VAHN" for those who don't know Irish) and the flame point is Rory (pronounced "dumbass"). they are going on 2 years old now; I got them when they were around 8 months old, having been trapped at around 6 months, right on the edge of being socializable. I love them so much :heart:

two cats, one tabby, one flamepoint, laying on a black quilt on a bed
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Back in August of 2025, we announced a temporary block on account creation for users under the age of 18 from the state of Tennessee, due to the court in Netchoice's challenge to the law (which we're a part of!) refusing to prevent the law from being enforced while the lawsuit plays out. Today, I am sad to announce that we've had to add South Carolina to that list. When creating an account, you will now be asked if you're a resident of Tennessee or South Carolina. If you are, and your birthdate shows you're under 18, you won't be able to create an account.

We're very sorry to have to do this, and especially on such short notice. The reason for it: on Friday, South Carolina governor Henry McMaster signed the South Carolina Age-Appropriate Design Code Act into law, with an effective date of immediately. The law is so incredibly poorly written it took us several days to even figure out what the hell South Carolina wants us to do and whether or not we're covered by it. We're still not entirely 100% sure about the former, but in regards to the latter, we're pretty sure the fact we use Google Analytics on some site pages (for OS/platform/browser capability analysis) means we will be covered by the law. Thankfully, the law does not mandate a specific form of age verification, unlike many of the other state laws we're fighting, so we're likewise pretty sure that just stopping people under 18 from creating an account will be enough to comply without performing intrusive and privacy-invasive third-party age verification. We think. Maybe. (It's a really, really badly written law. I don't know whether they intended to write it in a way that means officers of the company can potentially be sentenced to jail time for violating it, but that's certainly one possible way to read it.)

Netchoice filed their lawsuit against SC over the law as I was working on making this change and writing this news post -- so recently it's not even showing up in RECAP yet for me to link y'all to! -- but here's the complaint as filed in the lawsuit, Netchoice v Wilson. Please note that I didn't even have to write the declaration yet (although I will be): we are cited in the complaint itself with a link to our August news post as evidence of why these laws burden small websites and create legal uncertainty that causes a chilling effect on speech. \o/

In fact, that's the victory: in December, the judge ruled in favor of Netchoice in Netchoice v Murrill, the lawsuit over Louisiana's age-verification law Act 456, finding (once again) that requiring age verification to access social media is unconstitutional. Judge deGravelles' ruling was not simply a preliminary injunction: this was a final, dispositive ruling stating clearly and unambiguously "Louisiana Revised Statutes §§51:1751–1754 violate the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, as incorporated by the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Constitution", as well as awarding Netchoice their costs and attorney's fees for bringing the lawsuit. We didn't provide a declaration in that one, because Act 456, may it rot in hell, had a total registered user threshold we don't meet. That didn't stop Netchoice's lawyers from pointing out that we were forced to block service to Mississippi and restrict registration in Tennessee (pointing, again, to that news post), and Judge deGravelles found our example so compelling that we are cited twice in his ruling, thus marking the first time we've helped to get one of these laws enjoined or overturned just by existing. I think that's a new career high point for me.

I need to find an afternoon to sit down and write an update for [site community profile] dw_advocacy highlighting everything that's going on (and what stage the lawsuits are in), because folks who know there's Some Shenanigans afoot in their state keep asking us whether we're going to have to put any restrictions on their states. I'll repeat my promise to you all: we will fight every state attempt to impose mandatory age verification and deanonymization on our users as hard as we possibly can, and we will keep actions like this to the clear cases where there's no doubt that we have to take action in order to prevent liability.

In cases like SC, where the law takes immediate effect, or like TN and MS, where the district court declines to issue a temporary injunction or the district court issues a temporary injunction and the appellate court overturns it, we may need to take some steps to limit our potential liability: when that happens, we'll tell you what we're doing as fast as we possibly can. (Sometimes it takes a little while for us to figure out the exact implications of a newly passed law or run the risk assessment on a law that the courts declined to enjoin. Netchoice's lawyers are excellent, but they're Netchoice's lawyers, not ours: we have to figure out our obligations ourselves. I am so very thankful that even though we are poor in money, we are very rich in friends, and we have a wide range of people we can go to for help.)

In cases where Netchoice filed the lawsuit before the law's effective date, there's a pending motion for a preliminary injunction, the court hasn't ruled on the motion yet, and we're specifically named in the motion for preliminary injunction as a Netchoice member the law would apply to, we generally evaluate that the risk is low enough we can wait and see what the judge decides. (Right now, for instance, that's Netchoice v Jones, formerly Netchoice v Miyares, mentioned in our December news post: the judge has not yet ruled on the motion for preliminary injunction.) If the judge grants the injunction, we won't need to do anything, because the state will be prevented from enforcing the law. If the judge doesn't grant the injunction, we'll figure out what we need to do then, and we'll let you know as soon as we know.

I know it's frustrating for people to not know what's going to happen! Believe me, it's just as frustrating for us: you would not believe how much of my time is taken up by tracking all of this. I keep trying to find time to update [site community profile] dw_advocacy so people know the status of all the various lawsuits (and what actions we've taken in response), but every time I think I might have a second, something else happens like this SC law and I have to scramble to figure out what we need to do. We will continue to update [site community profile] dw_news whenever we do have to take an action that restricts any of our users, though, as soon as something happens that may make us have to take an action, and we will give you as much warning as we possibly can. It is absolutely ridiculous that we still have to have this fight, but we're going to keep fighting it for as long as we have to and as hard as we need to.

I look forward to the day we can lift the restrictions on Mississippi, Tennessee, and now South Carolina, and I apologize again to our users (and to the people who temporarily aren't able to become our users) from those states.

Game Bundle: No ICE in MN

Feb. 9th, 2026 03:11 pm[personal profile] elf
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No ICE in Minnesota bundle at itch.io: 1400+ games for $10 donation that goes to the Immigrant Law Center of Minnesota.

Notable items include:
  • Baba Is You (video game)
  • A Good Snowman Is Hard to Build (video game)
  • Calico (video game)
  • ECO MOFOS!! (TTRPG)
  • Bump in the Dark: Revised Edition (TTRPG)
  • Tangled Blessings (solo TTRPG)
  • Be Seeing You (GM-less TTRPG)
  • Rosewood Abby (Brindlewood style TTRPG)
  • Three Magic Eyeland collections (...nobody else may care about stereograms but I love them)

UPDATES ALL AROUND

Feb. 9th, 2026 10:14 am[personal profile] pictishmouse
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MANY THINGS MAKE A POST
  • my sister is home from the hospital! \o/ and she's hungry! and not sick to her stomach! yay!

  • I have been actually cooking breakfast for myself! (as opposed to throwing something in the microwave) mmmm poached eggs on sourdough toast....

  • I HAVE A NEW CAR as of a month ago! Dr Tinycar, my blue 2009 Mini Cooper, got totalled in 2019 after getting rearended at speed on the Oakland Bay Bridge, so I got a slightly newer black Mini Cooper named Crow that lasted a good long while but was high mileage (over 100K!) and was front wheel drive only and I didn't feel safe driving it in winter in Minneapolis, so when the probate money finally came through I got another Mini Cooper, this time an all wheel drive 2023 Countryman! it's red and black and its name is Genghis Khar XD I love this car XD

  • this past Saturday was the gotcha day anniversary for my cats Siobhan and Rory! :heart: I got them right after I moved here last year as 8-month old scared feral kittens nicknamed the Hissy Fits by their foster. now they are happy, sweet, affectionate and confident cats. I love my babies!

  • and this past Monday was my 1 year anniversary of moving to Minneapolis! \o/ eventually I'll tell the tale of the past couple years and how I, a diehard desert rat, ended up in the Upper Midwest....

eventually I'll post up pictures of Genghis Khar and of Siobhan and Rory, but not right now XD let's just say (KNOCKING ON ALL THE WOOD) I'm glad I moved here ^__^
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From this thread at Bluesky - When people ask how to get into GA SF I always say that the right way is via some of those fat "Best Of" short fiction collections.

Long discussion, many comments, mostly agreeing that yep, the way to get people into SF is anthologies, not novels, especially "best of" anthologies rather than whatever theme-of-the-day was popular. Also many people agreeing that many of "the classics" do not hold up today, and "Heinlein juveniles + the Foundation trilogy" is not a good suggestion for a young teen who might be interested in scifi now.

So... if you were building an anthology of The Great Science Fiction, with a focus specifically on non-SF readers who might be interested, what would you put in it?

Some limitations may be in order )

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