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via [livejournal.com profile] rockerchica826: "Take this survey if you openly talk about sex."

What is it that you absolutely need sexually?
Tenderness, soft touches, appreciate me as if I were beautiful.

What is something you have always wanted to try?
Wall!sex

What is something you have never done in bed before?
Performed sexual acts (beyond kissing) on another woman

What time of day do you like to have sex?
I particularly like morning and night, but any time is fine.

What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on?
"Absolutely", eh... but v. helpful are slender body, pale skin, long dark hair, dark eyes.

How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
"Wander" to where? If you mean "touching anywhere at all", then virtually no time whatsoever. Touching is part of kissing to me. If you mean specifically "naughty no-no places", then um, a while? I dunno?

If someone was in the next room while you had sex would it make you nervous or excited?
Nervous.

Would it bother you if your bf/gf got naked at a beach or river?
No, but I'd be confused, since that's not the sort of thing he'd usually do.

Have you ever faked an orgasm?
"Show me a girl who hasn't", said the answer before me. Well, I haven't. Why would I? (Aside from "When Harry Met Sally" kinds of amusement purposes.) If I have one I do. If not, I don't. I never have them during sex unless there's particular manual effort, so...

What Part of your body are you self-conscious about?
All of it. It would be shorter to list what I'm not self-conscious about.

Do you have any sexual regrets?
Yes.

If a lover cheated on you would you take them back?
Define "cheated", but that says more about my emotional state than what I'd do. I'm a desperate abandoment-issued chick. So, yes. It would hurt, and I'd believe less of them, but yes.

How important is sex in your life?
Important, but I don't have to have it every day, even every week.

How important is love in your life?
Enough to know I wither without it.

What is the biggest fight you have ever had with a bf/gf?
I really don't remember.

Do you believe in make-up sex?
I don't know, but I think if you are to that point, then things are probably going downhill...

Have you ever told a complete stranger something you kept from a lover?
Oh yes.

Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so?
No.

Who did you lose your virginity to?
My second boyfriend, who was the person I wound up being with the longest, until the person who is now my husband.

When and where did you lose your virginity?
Late Jan 1996, his house, the living room. The couch, um.. wasn't the best possible location, but hey.

If you could go back in time would you change it or take it back?
I think maybe waiting a bit longer would have been a good idea.

Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant?
"Under" a restaurant?? Do you mean "in" a restaurant, under a table? No.

Where would you have sex in public?
Did it once on a swingset in a park. I dunno, anywhere concealed and/or dark enough?

Would you ever have sex while at work?
Ew, no!

Would you have sex in the corner of a department store?
No.

Would you have sex in the rain?
Sure, but other conditions apply.

What movie makes you horny?
Um, none...

What is the highest number of orgasms you have had in one sex romp?
Probably 2, but highest in a day was 6.

How many do you wish you could have?
Um, really even one is quite fine... two sometimes sounds okay, but I don't get this fantastical idea that tons of orgasms necessarily = better.

What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural?
On the opposite sex? Trimmed above, shaved below. On myself, I wax everything. Now you know.

Would you have sex in a dressing room?
Um, no.

What sounds do you like to hear during sex?
Most anything is okay. Some silly vocalization, even, but only up to a point. Breathing, moans, grunts, mumbling words that never quite make it to English.

What sounds do you make during sex?
Mostly breathing. I'm pretty quiet.

What words do you love to hear during sex?
Specific words are usually not so appreciated actually. "Oh" is fine, but that is more just a vowel vocalization than a word.

What do you yell during an orgasm?
I don't.

How many times a week do you like to have sex?
Depends. Sometimes I want every day, sometimes once or twice is plenty.

Do you want to try the 69 position?
I have done. It's tricky. Can't decide whether I like side by side or one on top, one on bottom better.

What are your three fav. positions?
Side-by-side from behind, missionary, female-superior

What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body?
Upper back/nape of the neck, some random spots under my jaw, upper inner thigh / labia

Top or Bottom?
Um, isn't that meaningless for heterosexual sex? Still, both.

Bedroom or other room?
Anywhere!

Lights on or off?
Either, but right now I prefer dim light to off.

Public or Private?
Private.

Partially or Entirely naked?
Usually entirely, but partially can be good too. :D

Oil & Lotion or Candles & Egyptian Cotton Sheets
Umm... oil & lotion. Egyptian cotton? Who cares? Candles sounds like a liability.

Naughty Videos or Hott Photos?
Neither.

Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather?
Neither.

Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle?
Slow & gentle.

Standing up or Laying down
Laying down. I like the idea of standing up but it generally doesn't work.

Soft or Firm touch?
Soft.

Under Covers or On top?
On top, or rather, they get kicked off.

Would you ever have sex in your childhood bedroom?
I do that regularly, since it's currently where my husband and I are living.

Have you ever hooked up on a swing set?
LOL yes! Did you read my above answers...?

Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo?
Can't think of anything.

Any New Positions you havent done but want to try?
No.

Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore?
Nah.

Are there any secret desires you have never told?
Oh sure.

Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex?
The only places I have done are my bedroom and the shower, and, meh, neither is so great. The kitchen would be nice, but I doubt that's happening anytime soon.

What is your favorite thing about sex?
Making someone else lose it.

What is your favorite sexual setting?
Somewhere private enough everyone can make noise.

Whats your favorite position?
Side by side, from behind? I guess?

Would you ever work out nude?
No.

Would you have sex on the bench press?
Ew?

Would you ever fool around in a movie theater?
Maybe some.

Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf?
Um, no.

Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf?
Not at my current weight.

Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person?
"Need"? Less. "Think about"? I sometimes wonder when it was I turned into a teenage boy.

Who was on your mind while you did this survey?
My husband, but other than that, no one in particular. You asked me too many questions directly pertaining to him for much else to enter...

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